Thursday, May 29, 2008

Romania Mission Trip - April 2007

This is a summary that I wrote about a mission trip we went on last year. This has meant so much to us that I wanted to share this. I will be writing more about this and our upcoming trip back soon.

We had a wonderful time and our lives will never be the same. We were very touched by the orphans there and they will always be in our hearts. We wanted to say thank you for your support, it really means a lot to us that our family and friends were behind us for this trip.



Our purpose in going to Romania was to show Gods love to the orphans and to let them know that people out there do care for them. We wanted God to use us so that we could make everlasting impressions on these kids, so that some day they might grow up to know the Lord.

Going on the trip with people from our church was very nice because we were able to get together a few times before the trip to get to know each other. We were a very tight team and our openness was great. We worked together well at the baby hospital and the orphanage. We really grew a lot personally and as a team as the week went on.

We went to the baby hospital several times and really were touched by the kids there. The abandoned babies really need to be held, talked to, played with, and loved in order to develop normally. Without the missionaries and teams that work with them they may not know what the unconditional love of another is like. There were 5 children here that we cared for, and they were all very precious. The picture below shows us holding Ionut and Florika. Ionut has Cerebral Palsy, but he is very aware of his surroundings. He liked to go and look at cars out the window.


Florika is a perfectly healthy little girl, and she really stole our hearts. You can see in the next picture that we really felt a connection with her, and if Romania was open for international adoption we would adopt her in a heartbeat. She liked to play with Mark’s glasses and nametag and she also liked to stand up with a little help. She is developing so well, it is really a testimony of the care she receives from the full time missionaries and teams like ours that are there often.



Aristitsa, on the left in the picture above, has a genetic disorder that caused her fingers and toes to all stay together, and she also has respiratory problems. She is still pretty healthy though, and she liked to stand and has very strong legs. She was a real sweetheart too. Someone is sponsoring her to come to the USA and have surgery, by a doctor who is doing it for free. Wow!

The other two kids here were Dragoche and Mariana. Dragoche liked Rebecca and was very cuddly with her. Mariana has CP but was in a different room.

Going to the baby hospital was a great experience and we are so thankful that we had the opportunity to go there and love the kids. The hardest part was leaving, not knowing what the future holds for them. We really must trust that God has a plan for them and that he loves them and will take care of them.

We also went to an orphanage just outside of Bucharest and that was a great time too. The kids there were really happy that we were there and they were really starved for loving attention. We were able to put on a skit about Jesus and the Easter story for them and help with crafts. Some people played soccer which most of the kids just loved. We played mostly with the younger kids, playing tag, walking hand in hand, and playing other games too. The kids were excited when they found out that we were married, because they don’t see loving married couples that often. Some of them liked to pretend that they were our child, which was so touching and it made us realize how much they long for a family.



Rebecca got her hair braided by one of the boys, and lots of the girls got their nails painted, hair braided, and other fun things that they don’t always get to do.


The picture below shows Mark with his little guy, Bogdan. He loved piggy back rides and would bounce up and down like he was on a galloping horse. We rolled wheels across the play area to each other which was really fun. He found a spark maker from a lighter which didn’t work, but Mark would pretend to be shocked and he laughed. He also liked blowing bubbles. He really did have fun and laughed and giggled, and that made it so worth being there.


One other thing about the kids at the orphanage is that they don’t get to play with men very much because the majority of volunteers that go on these trips are women. So that meant that the boys all wanted to wrestle and swing around and go for piggy back rides. They need positive male role models so it was great for Mark to be there for them. It was so very great to see the joy that these kids were experiencing, because they don’t get this sort of interaction every day.

We also went to the boys and girls transition houses which are where some kids can go after they are too old for the orphanages. They learn job skills and how to take care of themselves. One thing we were surprised about is that they typically don’t know how to take showers because all they have in the orphanages are tubes sticking out of the walls that blast out water. We got to spend some time with hanging out with them and encouraging them. They were very nice and we really enjoyed hanging out with the guys because some of them knew pretty good English.


The picture below is a typical yard/house in a small village. This was the village where the boys transition house was. Walking through we felt like we had gone back in time. Most of the fields for crops are around the outside of the village, and the yards are typically gardens like this one.

We also did some sight seeing, like going to the open air market, the glass district, the Palace of the Parliament, the revolution tour, and the Peles castle at Sinaia. We ate a lot of good food and the team house was wonderful. It was great to get to know the Heart to Heart staff and we now realize what a great mission this is.



This trip was totally amazing and has left us yearning for more. We were able to have a lasting impact on these kids. God used us to pour out his love to the orphans and it was so great to see the orphans receiving it. We will be constantly thinking and praying about all the orphans and those that God has entrusted to care for them. Please also keep them in your prayers. You can check out the webpage to read more about H2H and the orphans here: http://www.heart2heartint.org/index.php Thanks again for your support!

Sandi & Jay's Wedding

My sister Sandi just got married. Wow. Sandi is my younger sister and I am so proud of her. She married Jay, a great Christian guy from Wisconsin, who I'm sure is going to do a great job of being her husband. They were married on Saturday, at Sandi's church, and Rebecca and I were honored to stand up in the wedding party. The day couldn't have been more perfect, from the weather to how everything came together. Our friend Rodd, who is the campus minister of His House Christian Fellowship, did a great job officiating the wedding. I was really impressed by the depth of the message and how faith in God was mentioned several times as the cornerstone of a great marriage.
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Sandi was beautiful in her wedding gown, and Jay was handsome as ever. They took advantage of the nice weather and church landscaping to have some nice pictures taken outside, both before and after the wedding. Sandi and Jay didn't see each other before the ceremony, so they took separate pictures before the wedding.


Here is Sandi with all the bridesmaids. They all looked very pretty, especially the second one from the left :-)


That's me and Sandi shortly before the wedding started.

Here I am with Sandi and my younger brother Kevin. I thought a black and white photo would be cool, and I think it turned out great.


Rebecca and I had a great time standing up in the wedding, although we'll have to watch the video because we couldn't see much of Sandi and Jay. We were the first ones in and the last ones out, so we were on the lowest steps of the altar.

Sandi and Jay came out to lots of bubbles, very fun!

After the wedding we went to downtown Grand Rapids for some more pictures. It was a great time as we could tell how much fun Sandi and Jay were having. We did meet an interesting person who made a lame hit on Sandi, but oh well, it was pretty funny. The reception was a lot of fun too, the food was great and Sandi's mashed potato bar was a big hit. Sandi and Jay honored our Uncle Carl and Aunt Joyce for their 40th wedding anniversary which was that day. Now they are on their honeymoon in the smoky mountains so we all hope they are having a great time.

Tuesday, May 27, 2008

Hello out there, and a little about us...

Hello, welcome to my new blog. I am Mark Essenburg and my wife is Rebecca. I started this blog so that we could share with you our life experiences and our thoughts on the many things that we are interested in. There are a lot of things we've done before being able to write about them, so I am going to be periodically posting on those things, in addition to the new things that are happening.

We have been married for nearly 5 years already, our anniversary is October 4, 2003. We now live in west Michigan, in our very own house that we bought new 3 years ago. I am a mechanical design engineer for Extol Inc, and Rebecca periodically works grading standardized tests. We have two cats, Smokey and Chewy, and they are big mischief makers, but we do enjoy them. We enjoy getting together with family and friends and are also quite involved with church. We are part of a great small group and we enjoy leading a small group of kids for the Wednesday night ministries. We are also on the LifeGroup Lead team, which oversees all the small groups.

We love God with all our hearts and we enjoy worshiping him in church and throughout the week. We are both still growing in our faith, that is a never-ending journey. Our faith in Jesus Christ is what gets us through the good and tough times, and we thank God for all he has done in our lives and how he has used us to bless others. We are very passionate about caring for orphans, which you will be able to hear a lot more about soon.

Well, that was very brief, but I'll be posting on all these things in much more depth later. I hope you enjoy reading our blog, and I hope that it can enrich your life.